Male chastity is nothing new, although its origins are a bit blurred in history. But there is some evidence to suggest that this BDSM kinky play actually used to take place centuries ago. But modern Chastity has advanced a bit. The idea of male chastity and orgasm control attracts many people, be it, women or men, who all like to enjoy it. When you start in chastity, it can seem daunting in the beginning. Many people think that you can only lock one penis in this play, and that's it. But there is more to this journey.
What Is Male Chastity Or Male Chastity Cage (Equipment/Device)?
A male chastity device or cage, also known as a cock cage or cock lock device. It is a sex toy device, which is worn on the penis and is locked in place by a small lock. Therefore it cannot be removed without a key or a matching code.
This device (cage) fits the penis in its loose position, with limited space in length and width. If we look at it in real terms, the whole idea behind the male chastity cage or device is to abstain from perfect erections, masturbation, and any form of oral or penetrative sex.
Why Is The Male Chastity Cage Worn?
Chastity cages are regularly used in the BDSM world as a form of submission and control by the dominant person in the relationship over their ability to achieve an erection, masturbation, or orgasm (sexual pleasure). However, some couples may try to use the cock cage to fulfill a sexual fantasy, or to house a cheating partner.
Though the thought of wearing it gives goosebumps to most beginner men. But it caters to weird sex and fantasy, therefore, being in a cage can be extremely exciting and satisfying. Some people also believe that refusing to orgasm increases sex drive, improves focus, and leads to a spectacular and powerful orgasm.
How To Put Up A Male Chastity Cage (Equipment) In 3 Easy Steps?
- 1: Apply Lube And Place The Ring On The Penis And Testicles
Use any personal lubricant before using the chastity cage or equipment, and lightly apply it to your entire loose penis. Then slide the ring over your penis, and behind your scrotum, so that the ring is against your body.
- 2: Place Your Penis Inside The Cock Cage
Place the cage over your loose penis, making sure that the locking pin and hole are facing up as you do this. If it's fitted properly to your penis, the cage shouldn't feel too tight. Then, connect with the pins on the ring attached to the holes in the cage.
- 3: Close The Chastity Cage
Now the chastity cage fits snugly on your penis, and is in a relaxed position, if you are comfortable, lock the cage. Always keep the key with you.
You should always keep in mind that you always keep the key with you. You have to explain that you are the keeper of his freedom, and it can be important to open up anytime.
Use Of Male Chastity Equipment With Trial Period
If this is your start, make sure you can tolerate the purity device by first turning it off for a few minutes, 1 hour, 1 day, 1 night, and then 2 or 3 days. During this, always keep in mind that there is no problem of pinching or burning on the skin of the penis. If everything is in a comfortable state and order, then you can start correcting for a longer period.
Does Wearing A Male Chastity Cage Hurt?
If this question is lingering in your mind too, then surely the simple answer is no. It probably doesn't hurt. Yes if it's part of a hard bdsm kink, it could cause some trouble. Actually, it is easy and fits on the penis, and if it is fitted properly, the cock cage leaves room for your penis to breathe easily without the hassle. However, it is important to get the correct size of the ring and cage when acquiring the tool, so that wearing the precision tool doesn't hurt.
Conclusion
Male chastity can add a different and thrilling sexual link to your life. With this, not only you but your female partner also get thrilled and supports you in better sex.
This is a rich and satisfying sexual lifestyle for you and your partner. So make it enjoyable and creative. If your partner is in control of sexuality, take a firm stance, and don't hesitate to explain what you're expecting from it, and how it's adding new dimensions to your overall sexual relationship. To do this, precautions and safety measures are necessary. Also, make sure that you always have a duplicate key with you in case of an emergency.