Hello boys,
It can be challenging to stay focused and locked in your chastity cage, especially if you need a keyholder to take out your keys and make them real.
But I want to ask you to never give up on it. Everytime you think about unlocking or giving up on this, remember:
- Why did you start with chastity at first? Remember your motivations
- When it is hard, remember the times you felt happy and completed wearing your device. If your memory could be better, try to write it down.
I would tell you to write it down all the reasons and things that make you happy about chastity.
I've been in this life since the end of 2019, and I have phases where I stay locked and phases where I stay unlocked. But I always try to remember why I love it so much.
And most important: be part of the community. Follow other locked boys, keep in contact, and help each other stay locked and focused. In the end, we are all a big and locked family, craving the same thing:
Stay locked and serve men.
With love,
Paul Efft